Coming Out on Top – Hints, Tips, and Help for Bonus Dates

General Tips

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  • Save often, especially at important dialogue decisions. This way, you can play through different relationship paths by loading/saving and you don’t have to start all the way over. 
  • If you’re trying to save $800 to go on the South America trip with Ian, a quick way to get money is to go on a Brofinder date with Theo. He’ll ask you to pretend to be his boyfriend at a high school reunion for $300, and you can convince him to give you $400. Or, you can go down Jed’s relationship path, there is a point where Jed gives you $1,000 to give to another member of his band, and you have the option to steal the money, but this takes more time. If you’re already going down Ian’s storyline, you just have to save through tutoring. Otherwise, you only need high friendship and $800 to take the trip. 
  • I’m only mentioning this because I didn’t notice at first, but there is a “Bonus Dates” option on the main menu that lets you go straight to Brofinder dates. Easy way to get through all of them without wasting weekends when pursuing the main storylines. 
  • This may go without saying, but only pursue one guy at a time if you want bonus endings. You’ll just have to replay the game a billion times to get through everything.

Meeting Amos

You can meet Amos at the gay bar with Ian. Follow Ian’s storyline until he tries to be your wingman. When you get the chance, tell Ian you don’t want his help anymore. A few random guys will talk to you until Amos enters, which can start his storyline.

Coming Out on Top - Hints, Tips, and Help for Bonus Dates
Coming Out on Top - Hints, Tips, and Help for Bonus Dates


Personally I find Frank to be the most annoying Brofinder date. Basically, this is the route you take before you get anywhere:

  • Tell him you’re a little too busy with school to do much traveling
  • Tell him you’re majoring in English
  • Tell him “why don’t we just cut over to the beach and hang out there”
  • Tell him you recently came out and don’t have that much experience
  • Tell him you have a pet fish
  • Tell him you’re a college student try to give a little something when you can 

Coming Out on Top - Hints, Tips, and Help for Bonus Dates

Jesse and Hugh

Jessie and Hugh are twin paramedics that are a highly missable “bonus date”, and is the only bonus date that is not initiated on Brofinder.

When prompted to go on a Brofinder date, choose the option “play with yourself”. Long story short, you get stoned and wake up to find that you shoved your goldfish up your♥♥♥♥♥. It’ll make sense later.

Coming Out on Top - Hints, Tips, and Help for Bonus Dates

When you realize where your goldfish is, call 911. From there you can meet Jesse and Hugh.


If you’re having problems with Luke, this is what you do:

  • Say you think “that’s a great attitude” when he wants to open himself up to new things.
  • Offer him a massage, but don’t get too gropey before that.
  • Attempt to kiss him during the sad scene. 

Coming Out on Top - Hints, Tips, and Help for Bonus Dates

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